If you don’t ask yourself want do you truly desire then you will never get anywhere or ahead in life! Ignoring yourself will only put you behind. Stop focussing on others less but give more time to yourself and make yourself happy first and make yourself established first before you can help anyone else. Otherwise it’s students helping students and no one becomes a master or it takes much longer then expected to become a master. If u open your mind then u have learned your lesson and onto the next one.